“The wise man does nothing,
smiling comes it.
Now is not anymore;
trust and be trusted.”
1 Love must be present. Love is the foundation to anything and everything; there is no growth, learning or evolution without love. A conversation without love is simply an act of attack and defence, from speaker to listener, but also from speaker to themselves and listener to themselves. If one attacks an ego, one gives the ego a reason to defend itself. if an ego defends itself, one has a reason to attack it.
2 We have seen and are seeing a part of “the” truth. I believe we each have seen a different part. Each is always complementary, and, if neither of us have attained nibana, then either part is never “enough”.
3 Although the perception of the truth is individual and subjective, the truth itself remains the same.
4 Conversations about this truth are impossible. Conversations about the individual perceptions of this truth are not. This is what I am keen to engage with u on.
5 One cannot doubt the view of the truth as it was/is experienced and presented by/to them. If one doubts, the whole conversation becomes pointless. We are each “specialists in the making” on something.
6 We must doubt everything we tell each other regarding how we perceive/experience this truth, as long as each person is willing to take action upon their doubt. Doubting simply for the sake of doing so is intellectual masturbation (blind critique).
7 We must believe everything each other say about our way to perceive/experience this truth, as long as we are willing to take action upon this belief. Believing for the sake of believing ins emotional masturbation ( blind faith).
8 Because we love each other, we must say what we think/feel we must say. Language is only precise and each individual in the conversation will then build their own idea of what is being said – nothing is flattering or offensive, unless we view it as such.
9 The ego will take every chance to use these linguistically faults to point fingers and blame anybody and anything before it has to look at itself. It was designed by nature for that, just as it was designed by nature to be understood as such and used buy the organism. “The obstacle is the path”.
10 Because we are intelligent, we chose to talk about what can be talked about. Let s choose to finish each conversation we start, to the best of our capacity.
11 Because we are enlightened we chose to stay silent regarding what cannot be talked about. Lets chose to live what can only be lived.
12 If the listener promptly agrees with something the speaker said: both be careful. This could be an ego trap (watch speaker).
13 if listener promptly disagrees with something speaker said: both be careful. This could be an ego trap (watch listener).
14 The speaker’s ego speaks. The listener’s ego listens. The speaker’s love acts. The listener’s love accepts. The speaker’s wisdom choses action or no action accordingly; as the speaker, their action or on action is directed outward. The listener’s wisdom will chose action or no action accordingly; as the listener, their action or no action is directed inward.
15 Be humble.